SCENARIO
Imagine
you are talking to a relative, a friend or a colleague. Maybe you
have not seen each other for a while and are talking about what you
look like now. At some point, the other person says to you something
like: "tell me, do you mean to say that I look old?".
In
Spanish, he/ she could choose to be less formal and say to you:
Dime,
¿quieres decir que estoy viejo?
On the
other hand, he/ she could choose to be more formal and say to you:
Dígame,
¿quiere (usted) decir que estoy viejo?
OUR
TIP
The question is an
invitation for you to say how the other person looks to you. When
your reply includes a reference to the person you are talking to, you
DO need to be concerned about the level of formality you want
to use in your reply.
Basically, you have
two levels of formality to choose from. Your choice will be
determined by how well you know the person in question and how much
familiarity, affinity and closeness you want to convey along with
your opinion. Basically, you have two options:
1. Less
Formal.- The person you are giving your opinion to is someone
with whom you DO have a very good rapport (could be a
relative, a friend or a colleague). Along with your opinion, you also
want to signal familiarity, affinity or closeness. In such cases, you
could choose to be more familiar/ less formal and give instructions
such as:
No, no creo que
estés para nada viejo* (no, I don't think
you look old at all);
Sí, creo que
estás un poco más viejo de lo que te
imaginaba* (yes, I think you look a bit older than I imagined
you to be);
2. More Formal.-
The person you are giving your opinion to is someone with whom you
DON'T have a very good rapport (could be a relative, a friend or a
colleague). Along with your opinion, you also want to signal that you
want to keep your distance. In such cases, you would choose to be
less familiar/ more formal and give instructions such as:
No, no creo que
esté (usted) para nada viejo* (no,
I don't think you look old at all);
Sí, creo que
está (usted) un poco más
viejo de lo que le imaginaba* (yes, I think you look a bit older
than I imagined you to be);
Now you should
practise replying to someone who says to you:
Dime,
¿quieres decir que estoy viejo?
*Please
see grammar below
Grammar-”Estar”
The
English verb to be has two corresponding verbs in Spanish,
“ser” and “estar”. When to use “ser”
and when to use “estar” often causes some confusion
amongst learners of Spanish. This post deals with the uses of
“estar”. A separate series of blog posts is dedicated to
the uses of “ser”.
In
this post we look at a number of situations in which “estar”
is commonly used. “Estar” is commonly used in the
following cases:
1.
Continuous Form- Verbs
In
Spanish, we commonly use “estar”
followed by a gerund to form continuous verb tenses. Continuous verb
tenses are used to indicate ongoing actions, which often take place
at the time of speaking, but may also take place at other times also.
Although
the most common use of the continuous form of verb tenses is found in
the present and imperfect tenses, its use is not restricted to those
tenses. In fact, the continuous form may be used with all verb
tenses. Some examples of the use of “estar”
in continuous forms of verbs with a variety of tenses are:
Estoy
escribiendo una carta
(I am writing a letter);
Estabas
mirando la tele, ¿verdad?
(you were watching TV, weren't you?);
Pedro
estara llegando por la
mañana temprano (Pedro will
be arriving early in the morning);
Hemos
estado cenando en un
restaurate muy típico (we
have been dining in a very traditional restaurant);
Estuvisteis
viajando por los Estados
Unidos (you people have been
travelling in the USA);
Espero
que John y Ann lo estén
pasando muy bien
(I hope that John and Ann are having a good time);
2.
States
In
Spanish, we commonly use “estar”to
indicate 'temporary' states* for someone or something. Some
examples of the use of “estar”
in expressions of this type are:
Estoy
muy contento (I
am very happy- male speaking);
Estás
triste,
¿verdad? (you
are feeling sad, aren't you?);
Pedro
está
muy cansado
(Pedro is very tired);
María
está
muy cansada
(María is very tired);
Estamos
muy relajados
(we
are very relaxed);
Estáis
todos bien, ¿no?
(are
you all well, aren't you?);
John
y Ann están
sanos y salvos
(John and Ann are safe and sound);
*NB
Please note that in this case, 'temporary' does not necessarily mean
'short'. In here, 'temporary' refers to states which have a
beginning, an end or both. An example of the 'longer term' meaning
of 'temporary' are expressions such as, “está muerto” (he
is dead)- which is a pretty long-lasting state to be in!
3.
Appearances
In
Spanish, we commonly use “estar”
to indicate a 'temporary' appearance of someone or something. When
used in this way, “estar”
may indicate a change in the normal appearance of someone
or something. Some examples of the use of “estar”
in expressions of this type are:
Estás
muy guapo
(you
are looking really handsome);
¡Qué
viejo estaba
Pedro!
(how
old was Pedro looking);
¡Estáis
jovencísimos!
(you
are looking very young!);
John
y Ann
están muy
altos
(John
and Ann are very tall);
4.
Locations
In
Spanish, we commonly use “estar”
to indicate the whereabouts of someone or something. That is, “estar”
is commonly used to indicate where someone or something is.
Now
you should practise the uses of “estar” with some examples
of your own.
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